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Achieving Orgasm While Masturbating her without Penetrating | Everything Under Singapore

Article written by: Lawrence1988
Some of the most pleasurable moments in bed with your loved ones is to know that your other half is enjoying her every moment while you are going at it. The best way she's going to be able to express this is through her moaning and you know it. The louder her moans, the nearer she is towards reaching the big-O. Achieving orgasm while masturbating her without penetration is possible because she herself can do it to, its just that much sexier when someone she loves, does all that stuff for her. It just adds on to that unpredictability.

The following are the 3 basic phases you can take to make her go to orgasm without having your shaft inside of her.

1) The build up - you know it when she puts you to bed and crosses her feet across yours. This is the part where you want to figure out all her sensitive spots. Basically, the spots she feels ITCHY are the parts you want to remember for step 2. You know it when she tries dodging or nudging you away from that particular spot. Try to remember all these soft spots. Its crucial when you go up towards level 2. Kiss her and caress her while trying to kick her towards arousal. Avoid her breasts and vagina area during this phase.

Lots of work to do during this phase. You will want to extend this phase for as long as possible. Remember, anticipation for her is one of the most powerful triggers for orgasm. Kiss her lips while you meander around her body. Move down her neck or kiss the back of her ears. The inner earlobe is also a spot you might want to try. Her arms, chest area, belly and thighs are spots you would want to play around with as well. Groping her butt cheeks is also one sexy way to tell her she's going to be enjoying tonight's session.

2) The Arousal - you know it when she starts closing her eyes and her breathing slightly increases. This is the part where your only objective is to work up her breathing till the point at which she moans.

The #1 mistakes most guys make while having sex is to move in on the vagina too early. You never need to get your hands dirty or soakingly wet yet while she's still not ready to let it go. This will only render the hand useless when you need it most.

Playing with the nipples have almost equal or similar effects as playing with her clitoris. When you try different techniques on her nipples while using your mouth and other hand to explore different sensitive areas(from step 1), you take her on to a whole new level. If there is any need for sex toys, this is also the time you will want to leash out your favorite collection of vibrators and dildos. This is the time she will be most vulnerable to any requests, especially requests that will make her feel even better.

3) The release - By now, she's almost pleading you with her moaning to release her. All the foreplay's aside, she's probably feeling so intense by now that a gently touch of her clitoris can almost send powerful signals to her brain to release all that tension.

Gently and slowly move in with a single finger, and move in a gently looping motion around the clitoris. Don't go in hard, gently and slow. Ignore the moans, just focus on doing what you are doing. Swerve your finger in a clockwise motion around the clitoris area. Then work your mouth on her nipples in that same motion and speed. This will make her almost wild. This varies with different women, explore different patterns, different speeds for optimal effect. Her moans will give you the indications when you are doing it right.

Now, whenever you are ready, just slowly increase the intensity and move in directly over her clitoris. This will make her almost want to shiver in pleasure. Its kind of a natural tendency for men to know when their women orgasmed. Unless you never experienced it before, you be well aware of it when they orgasmed.
Now. Be sure to make sure your fingers stay in her vagina and hold on for just a few more seconds while they jerk themselves off from all those built up tension. This will help them prolong their release and maximize on the effort of all those built up and foreplay. You wouldn't want them to have a half released orgasmed, right?